Separation and Divorce can be taxing for all parties involved. This is especially apparent when the rush of a new school year begins. With after-school dance, sports, and other activities, can put a strain on pickups, dropoffs, and weekend events. Here are some suggestions for setting up a parenting plan that can withstand the school […]
Are You Thinking About Divorce? Divorce is a scary word. You have probably been thinking about it for a long time. And maybe now is the first time you have been able to search it online. Or, it is the first time you have had the courage to say the word out loud. At Barkus […]
What About an Uncontested Divorce with Children? Divorce can be a stressful time for both parties involved, and they may be inclined to want to get it over with as soon as possible. At Barkus Law, we hear this a lot from our clients inquiring about divorce proceedings: “It is going to be very simple, […]
How are you getting billed for your divorce? Are you confident about how your lawyer is billing you? Do you know how you will pay for your divorce? Is it by the hour, like most firms, or flat fee like at Barkus Law? Here are some concerns we have about lawyers that bill by the […]
Divorce is rarely simple. Think you’ll have a simple divorce? You may have not considered all of the factors, like: Family plans – You may need a detailed parenting plan to address all of the issues that may come up in the future like vacation, field trips, and college Retirement/Pension – Just because you or your spouse didn’t […]
No. You Do Not. Your divorce may be vicious; in fact, it may be the hardest thing that you’ll have to do in your life. However, the way you have a successful divorce is by: Staying Levelheaded – You don’t need a pit bull; it is not going to work. It could end up costing […]
Getting a Covid-Vorce? Remote schooling, travel and different views on vaccines can definitely increase sparring in already delicate households. The pandemic is having a huge impact on everyone, including the families we work with. It’s important to focus on your family needs and try and think of creative solutions. Come to a Compromise – It can […]
If life has taken you down an unexpected path, you don’t have to walk it alone. What’s your Divorced New Years Resolution? Part of going through a separation or divorce is shifting attention from the hurt of your past and focusing on future opportunities. Focus on Forgiveness – You have probably experienced anger and/or blame towards […]
If life has taken you down an unexpected path, you don’t have to walk it alone. Unwrap the Secrets to Holidays after Divorce Don’t let Divorce bring you and your children a stocking full of coal. Splitting the holidays can be as easy as pie if you communicate and use solutions to celebrate more cheer. […]
If life has taken you down an unexpected path, you don’t have to walk it alone. Navigating the Thanksgiving Table Thanksgiving is a holiday about being grateful, which may be difficult when you’re navigating the stress of divorce or uncoupling. The first (or even fifth) Thanksgiving with your family is bound to have some challenges, […]